How to Deal with Hurt Feelings
Why is it that when I think my skin is finally thick, or that I'm too old and "sophisticated" to get my feelings hurt - WHAM! Sometimes I think I'm too sensitive. Is it because I'm a woman? Am I being hormonal? There probably is something to the fact that women tend to be more sensitive than men. Little girls are taught in many cultures to be mindful of others and to put others before themselves. There is probably some hereditary trait that is passed on from one generation, regardless of gender, to the next. Being sensitive, however, is not a weakness. In fact, it's usually the more sensitive ones who are the successful negotiators and they are certainly the ones we run to with a problem. " You're so sensitive! " Even that statement, albeit true, can be hurtful. There are times that a flip comment would roll off our backs and yet that same statement given other circumstances can bring us to our knees. If we are going to take me...